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Hi everyone, me again with my questions galore I will be having a hip replacement in the new year (whoohoo!) my surgeon says that i should recover quite quickly because of my age (26) and the fact that i am relatively fit (I don't think he realises i spend all evening camped out in front of the TV, but hey ho) but I've just been reading the booklet thing ive been given by the hospital and it says that i will be off work for at least 12 weeks before i can start my gradual return to work. does this sound realistic to you all? the booklet also says i shouldn't change my bedcovers or hoover for 12 weeks - are they actually having a laugh? (i live with a housework shy flatmate, and the smallest ammount of dust drives me up the wall) Am feeling rather daunted now instead of excited about being able to walk well again, so if anyone has tips, advice or any knowledge, can you please pass it my way thanks Laura
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Laura
There are never too many questions to ask when we suffer from RA.
I have not had a hip replacement but I am having a total knee replacement in January with the other one around July time. I do know you have to be really careful with hip replacements as they can easily pop out again if you do not follow your surgeon's instructions. I think it takes some time to recover. I will not be able to drive for six weeks and again have to be careful in what I do. I have been told about a 12 week recovery. Remember the booklets always paint the worse case scenario but you must go with how you feel.
I have a Husband and Daughter of 14 who do not know how to cook. Despite some persuasion on my part to learn, both are shying away. I will be in hospital for five days and on crutches when I come out of hospital so they will just have to get on with it. I think you really should let the dust accumulate for as long as you can bear it. I know that they will want you to keep moving as much as possible so that adhesions do not grow around the new joint whilst it is healing.
Like you this is my chance to be able to have more mobility and I guess it will be worth following instructions to get to our end goal.
Good luck with your operation.
Jackie xx
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Hi Laura I haven't had a hip replacement either but I know that recuperation where joint surgery is involved is a slow process (my wrist took the best part of 12 months!!). The 12 weeks quoted seems reasonable for such an operation although you will gradually be able to do more as time goes on. Take things easy at the outset and be guided by your own body and the physio! The added mobility will be wonderful for you and I hope the time out won't spoil what will be quite an achievement Hope all goes for you, Lyn x PS Good luck with the knee replacement Jackie  x
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Hi Laura
I had a very successful hip replacement 3 years ago.
The reason you are asked not to change bed sheets etc for 3 months is that you could compromise the new joint and pull it out of the socket. The muscles which surround and protect the joint will not be completely healed internally for around 12 months, so it is important to take extra care until the healing process is underway. I can't really advise, as we each have to listen to our consultant.
I was out and about 3 weeks after the op and never really looked back. I was back in the pool as soon as the skiin healed - not adviseable to do breast stroke though as yes....you could pull the wretched thing out!!!!!
You should also take care not to bend the hip more than 90%for the same reason.
I know all this sounds frightening, but I more or less carried on as normal and had no problems.
Do ask if you need any info.
Best of luck with it all
Love Jeanxx
PS You can contact me by messaging me (Jean Boyd)on Facebook
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Hi Laura, everything the book's telling you is correct. The info hasn't changed much in the last ten years, thats when I had my first hip done. Now I'm waiting again for the other side to be done. Ten years ago they told me I was too young at 50 to have the opp, can't see why age has anything to do with it. When your in pain and down to bone on bone it's the only way forward. My opp's due about March / April although I'm on a cancellation waiting list so maybe sooner than later. Don't worry about dusting ect, it's one of those things that friends don't mind being asked to help with. What about a long handled shoe horn, and grabber for picking things up, and there's a thing for helping to put your socks on. Collected mine when I had a pre opp assesment just before Christmas. Also had a trolly delivered to help me get meals and things from the kitchen to dinning room / lounge. Can't carry and use sticks at the same time. Theres also a raised toilet seat. Have you got a good chair, that and the height of your bed should be measured, Therapy services actually came out and measured mine . One thing I'm looking forward to when this is all over.... that's being able to get into the bath and have a soak. Hope the info's helpful, you'll be fine and something else.......THE HIP PAIN WILL BE GONE !!!! Take care and keep in touch. Kathleen xx
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Hi Laura, I know nothing about hip replacements but I do wish you every success with it. I hope it will be all you expect it to be. We must all have that get together in Edinburgh as soon as you are able. Take care and lots of good wishes. Lorna x
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thanks for the comments girls, i never even thought about the height of my bed... what do they do it your bed is too low? i can't exactly ask my landlord for a new one! gosh - there is such a lot to think about and Lorna I'd be up for meeting up anytime after the 10th really Laura
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Hi Laura
The OT at the hospital should come and see you before you go home to assess all these things. They will supply bed and chair raisers, provide you with a loo seat raiser and a bath board or shower stool. They should also let you have a grab stick so you can safely pick things up.
Love Jeanxx
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thanks for all the advice everyone. I'm getting my replacement on the 24th  <-- that is meant to convey excitement / nerves not confusion by the way! im a bit daunted by the whole recovery process as i am fiercely independent and houseproud and the idea of having a raised toilet seat for up to 3 months was pretty much enough to make me cry! I'm also struggling with the fact that the nurses etc just don't understand that i am a normal person - going to work, doing what i need to do - who happens to need a new hip. they expect me to be sitting about just waiting for them to call (as if!). I'm getting my sofa raised as well as my bed and the dreaded toilet seat paraphinailia. i did freak my nurse out at the pre op when i asked if i could just remove my makeup as i got dolled up in my gown for surgery - she clearly had not had a patient doing this before, but hey I'll be going on the bus and you never know who your are going to meet do you?! if anyone has sneaky tips for stuff youre not really meant to do post op then send them my way, not that i would ever do anything i'm not supposed to.... also, is there a clear rule about when you are allowed to have sex? in the brochure thing from the hospital it wasn't even covered, and i couldn't really ask the surgeon because there was no less than 5 students all lined up against the wall like they were waiting for some kind of medical firing squad. could you imagine how embarrassing it would be if the first time i get 'intimate' my flippin hip pops out  i would not be impressed, I'd have to think of a cover story and everything while waiting for the ambulance! thats enought chit chat from me Laura
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they never cover those kind of things do they.... I blogged about my hip replacement when I was 21 so if I can find the link, I'll post it...
In regards to sex... I was told to wait 6 weeks and then to have sex in missionary position (without lifting hips more than 90 degrees..) However, I was also given a sheet of sexual positions that I could comfortably do.. One of the positions being a spooning position lying on my operated side
You find you are just more wary and while a lot of the information is given as caution, its more down to how you feel. For example the whole not doing breast stroke, I followed that to the letter. Then I had my 2nd hip done and asked about it again. It seems that breast stroke is not a problem after the first 6/12 months. Risk of dislocation is minimal and its only going to really pop out of you do something extreme (like bungy jumping)
Hope this helps, shout out if there's anything else you want to know Helly x Celebrating 10yrs of National Rheumatoid Arthritis Society Doing a Tandem Skydive - May 2011 - All Sponsorship Welcome - www.justgiving.com/helencopeland Read my blog - Helly Copeland
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Found it! - I've copied the blog piece I did when I had my first hip replacement done - You'll find it under Members Blogs - Windows to the SoulHelly x Celebrating 10yrs of National Rheumatoid Arthritis Society Doing a Tandem Skydive - May 2011 - All Sponsorship Welcome - www.justgiving.com/helencopeland Read my blog - Helly Copeland
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Hey everyone, Helly thanks for posting your blog about your hip replacement. I got mine done the other day and i am feeling fine. went in on the thursday, had the op late thursday afternoon, was on the ward by 6 and i was allowed out at lunchtime on sunday (could have been sat but there were no doctors about to sign me off so to speak) I'm being super careful about not bending too much or anything, i was off the painkillers (paracetamol) by day 5 and at the moment sleeping is the only problem because i'm not able to sleep on either side and sleeping flat on my back makes my knees and back ache, but otherwise its fine and dandy. I had the spinal, it was immense. i was in the recovery room for an hour (tea time on the ward, so they wouldn't come and get me) and spent the whole time playing tetris and scrabble on my ipod - got a bit boring but it was soooo much better than being out of it for the rest of the day  i stood up the evening of the op (too stubborn to use a bed pan) and it hurt so much i thought i was going to pass out, but the next morning it was much better and now (day 9) it doesn't hurt at all when i stand up, which is awesome. I'm too hungry to type so i'll tell you all the rest later
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Hi Laura, glad everythings going well for you. Did you come home on crutches or sticks? This time next week I should be in hospital waiting for my opp. Only thing that'll prevent me is my blood test results. Had one last week and my crp level was high so another one on monday might be ok..fingers crossed. Anyway better start sorting hospital things out just in case, must remember a good book for my rest time. Kathleen xx
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Hi Laura,
So glad your op went well. Hope you have a smooth recovery.
Good luck to you, Kathleen, hope you get it done.
Love, Doreen xx
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Thankyou Doreen,
I'm twitted up really.Not so much the opp it's the waiting for blood test results. I should hear on Tuesday so will let you know. Kathleen xx
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Hope it goes ahead for you Kathleen, and that all goes well with the op and your recovery. Kathleen C x
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hi Laura,
sounds like this has worked well for you .. and interesting to hear you had an Epidural, when my knee's need replaced ( Osteo in both ) this is what i want to opt for if i can.
hope you go from strength to strenth,
and good luck Kathleen,
Suzanne x
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Hello Laura
Pleased to read that you are coming along leaps and bounds.
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Still waiting for my blood test results, should have had them today. Rang this afternoon but the doctor hadn't seen them yet, really getting anxious now due to go in this Friday. Suppose if they haven't said not to go in, then it must be still on track for Friday. Sorry i'm moaning on a bit, being on my own doesn't help..tomorrow's another day !
How's progress Laura, are you getting out and about yet? Kathleen x
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hi girls, sorry i've just seen this (my laptop is a bit heavy to carry one handed - so i don't get online as much as i might). Kathleen, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you today - hope it goes ahead and it is a great success. - the spinal anasthetic was wierd but i felt so much better in the long run than i did with general anasthetics before so i really would rcommend it. the whole staying awake thing might not be for everyone though, but you can get sedation if you would prefer that. Are you going to be by yourself when you come home post op? i had my mum stay for a few days and i found it so much easier just for her to get up and bring me a drink or something. I would definately take a phone into the bathroom when you go for a shower though - just in case you get into a sticky situation and need picking up off the floor or actual ambulance assistance. I have tons of tips about adapting your home for after the op so send me a message if you want to hear them. As for me.... I've now reached 3 weeks post op the physio initially tried me walking with a zimmer frame for about the length of 10 meters. i was so determined not to use a zimmer because it just made me feel awful (admittedly the height hadn't been adjusted and the handles hurt my hands) and basically i was embarrassed/felt humiliated at having to use a zimmer (to the point that i started crying). i know that is totally stupid, but it really upset me to have to use it, so when i said i didn't like it, she asked it i wanted to try my sticks (ergonomic handles are the future!) and because my balance is pretty good, and i am so used to using sticks, she let me carry on with my sticks, even let my try one stick and said i could use one when needed around the house. mum brought my spangly ribbon to the hospital the next day, so by the time i was discharged, i had matching customised sticks (except on the right it has a blue ferrule and wrist strap, and the left is purple - you've got to be able to work out which is which). i've been really lucky pain wise, my main problem has been sleeping. admittedly i have once or twice fallen to sleep on my side without a pillow between my legs (don't tell the docs!) and i have bent slightly more than 90 degrees to pull on my boots or shave my legs (really, don't tell the docs) but generally its been fine. I'm now having trouble with my shoulders, probably because i've been trying to have a bit of a wander each day, and have maybe over-done it, but all in all life is good. I hoovered the other day (totally not allowed) and i am quite confident at going on the bus (again not allowed) so all i need to do now is make a bed and i will have broken all the rules they gave me I've also decided that getting an asda delivery is the best idea i've ever had - can't trust my boyfriend to come back from the shop with anything sensible. can't believe i used to struggle there on the bus every week, £2.50 delivery is totally worth it!
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